The first time having sexual intercourse is something we all remember. The smell of it and the person you shared the moment with will all create memories. The first time putting on a condom for guys and the first time putting those birth control pills to use for a woman. Pleasuring each other sexually is what all the foreplay has been leading up to.
Your bloods rushing and your heart rate is higher than ever. You are in anticipation of one of the greatest times of your life. You have moved one step closer to adulthood. There's no other way to describe the feeling when it comes to the first time having sex. The feeling is nothing like movies and magazines portray it to be so expect some of the unexpected to possibly arise. Don't let these negatively affect your sexual experience though. Making sure you are feeling like the time is right is important for a woman. Deciding the right time shouldn't be persuaded by pressure because if it is, you might regret it. Keep an open mind because the feeling only gets better after the first time and orgasm.
Wear some form of protection when having sex for the first time. Putting on a condom might seem like a funny experience in itself. If you have any doubts, read the wrapper. You should remember the first time for a good reason so taking necessary precautions such as a condom will help make things go smoothly. For a woman, the first time can be scary because of the stories you heard about pregnancies and STDs. By taking safety measures, you can allow yourself to get comfortable and focus on that first time.
Your first time might not be in the place you had in mind unless it was properly planned but don't let this dissuade you. Being comfortable is more important for the woman so do everything you can to make sure she feels this way. Ask questions and talk about what to expect with each other. Then go ahead and create your sexual experience. You are both going to see each other's sexual sides so don't overthink. You will both be having new experiences that you will remember for the rest of your lives. Light some candles and proceed to intercourse.
After The Deed Is Done
Once you have finished your first sexual experience, you will now have a better understanding of what sexual intercourse is. The details no one tells you about are clear now. Everything you just experienced should be a highlight for the next time. If you experienced anything you didn't like then share it with your partner. Sexual comfort with each other will make the experience better for the next time, and especially so if you plan on having intercourse with them again. Your first sexual encounter is something you will always remember no matter how many more times you do it. Make sure it is with the right person and at the right place as this is the only sure way to relish these feeling s forever.